So, this just happened about 5 minutes ago. My roommate is an attractive female who goes on lots of dates. As such, she has a lot of orbiters, tag alongs, and a lot of guys that are “there for her”. All of whom sit comfortably in her friendzone. Then one of her poor soul friends […]
holdme2000 in our subreddit posted a link to a blog post: Understanding Neediness. It is such a great article that it requires it’s own post here on ShakedownLab. We will have plenty of content here addressing neediness because it is so crucial to recognize this unattractive behavior. Tweet
In all the shit that is posted in the /r/seduction subreddit, on the rare occassion there is actually great content. Today is one of those days. Someone posted a comprehensive guide to teasing and it is truly spot on. If there was anything I was naturally good at before I started any of this self […]
So it’s been a couple weeks since my last post. Quick update — I’m still seeing the girl, though I think she likes me a lot more than I like her. The sex is great, but I’m just not feeling that emotional connection. And that’s really what we all want as Former FAs. We crave […]
One common theme among Forever Alones is that they try to plan everything out. They over-think things way too much. Tell me if this sounds familiar: You meet a cute girl, exchange contact information. You send her some initial form of communication, be it a fb friend request, a txt, a voicemail, whatever. Then you […]
One particular thing that has been holding me back from approaching girls is that I make assumptions about her current status or what she’s thinking depending on the environment and the people she is with. This is no good because how the hell can I actually know? Admit it though, every one of you does […]
Last night I went on the date with the girl I met from the story I posted in this thread We texted back and forth Monday and Tuesday and then I didn’t text her until Friday morning, the day of the date. Everything is going fine and I get to the meeting place. She texts me […]