Feb 042013
Why you are afraid to talk to girls

This was in response to a post in our subreddit. Welcome. I’d like to start off by saying it’s not natural for 99.999% of human beings. This subreddit is not the 0.001%. There are many of us that are just like you, who struggled to communicate and feel comfortable around women. For a good many […]

Jan 092013
What "You Must Love Yourself Before You Can Be Loved By Others" Means

Guest post by HokumGelpTexas There was a post in r/faimprovement about what that old adage, “You must love yourself before you can be loved by others” means. I responded before hitting the sack only to find the next day that what I wrote really resonated with a lot of people. Here’s the meat of the […]

Nov 222012
You must earn everything. You are entitled to nothing.

Some analog thoughts I have. Not going to post this in /r/faimprovement. It’s 8:18am on Thanksgiving Day. Today, in America, we gather friends and family and give thanks to everything that we have in life. It’s a celebration of life. This is a fact I find most interesting. We are celebrating being alive.. I am most thankful […]

Nov 012012
Stop over-analyzing and become a man of action

Hi again. It’s been a while since my last post. Real life has been exciting. Long hours at work, friends visiting, new hobbies, new books, new apartment studio. Life is amazing and I have no complaints. I’m still dating the girl from this story and it’s going very well. So here’s a long update on the […]

Sep 242012
Met a stranger on the LIRR who lives in his own reality.

I just returned to DC from a weekend up in New York visiting friends and family. It was a great weekend — made out with a girl, though the story isn’t interesting enough to warrant its own post. Funny how it has become such a “no big deal” thing that I don’t even feel compelled […]

Aug 232012
When out socializing, thinking is the enemy

I’ve been meaning to write this post for a while now, but while out with ThoughtTrain and friends, we discussed the problem of thinking. I’ve alluded to the problem of thinking in other posts, but I want to dive deeper into what thinking does to a former Forever Alone while out socializing. As a programmer […]


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