Step 4: The Game


Steps 1-3 are the necessary preliminary steps to ridding ourselves of our forever alone status. But now, in step 4, it’s time to start learning how to interact with women.

I read [1] The Game. A lot of redditors in [2] /r/foreveralone dislike the book, saying it teaches you how to manipulate women. This could not be further from the truth. It teaches you how to not come across as a total creep when approaching new people. When you approach someone, you want them to feel comfortable being around you so that they will continue to talk to you. If you nail that down, then you have made enormous progress. Besides, it’s a great read. I credit the book for helping me get my first legitimate date ever where I walked up to two random girls on the street and got a date out of it.

The book provides a lot of great ideas on how to approach groups of people. I took the general idea and came up with one that was not in the book that, so far, has 100% success rate in opening up a group (tried 10+ times with it so far).

Go up to a group of people and say, “Excuse me, can I get an opinion on something real quick? My friends and I are having a debate and it’s a matter of life and death.”

…The group will agree to hear your matter.

“Okay, real quick, because I have to get back to my friends, but if your tube of toothpaste is running low, do you squeeze the bottle or do you roll it up?”

This seems dumb, but it’s a great conversation starter. That’s all you need to do…Start a conversation and make people feel comfortable to be around you. That’s the essence of The Game. Now go read it.


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