Step 5: Body Language


Now that you’ve completed step 4 and have some basic understanding of social dynamics and flirting, you need to be able to read people’s body language. There is no better book on the subject than [1] The Definitive Book of Body Language. This book has helped me so much in being able to read people — and not just girls when going out and socializing, but also in business, friends, and general strangers. It’s incredibly eye opening and is a must read. Another great book is Superdate. This is a book specifically about body language in dating. The Definitive Book of Body Language goes into deep detail and evolutionary explanations for why our bodies do what we do. But if you just want to know what body language in dating is, then Superdate is for you. I recommend reading both though. Definitive Book is a great source for interesting conversational topics.

Most FA’s, although we don’t often admit it, have a real difficult time reading women’s signals in flirting. There is an entire chapter devoted to this. After reading it and going out and socializing, it is incredible how accurate and helpful this book is. Body language is huge! If you start understanding it, your life overall will improve.

Over the last six months, I’ve gotten exceptionally good at reading people’s body language. I can’t look at anyone the same way now. I “see more”, including when people are lying, etc.

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