Feb 182014
Who wants to go first? You do. Volunteer to be first every time.

It’s presentation day. You created your PowerPoint and you’ve prepared everything that you’re going to say. Everyone else is dreading having to get up there to present. Hello class! I’m excited to hear your presentations today…Who wants to go first? You freeze and get that uneasy pit feeling in your stomach. God you hate this […]

Oct 082013
How to gain confidence with women

Question from the forum: While reading your post regarding confidence, you mentioned that it stems from trust in oneself. How does one develop that trust then? Practice. In the last two years I’ve approached thousands of people and engaged in practically every conceivable social interaction. While every interaction is different, it almost always follows a […]

Apr 032013
Life as a man with confidence

There’s a common thread in /r/faimprovement about confidence. How to get confidence. What really constitutes true confidence. Etc. As a man who has been on both ends of the spectrum — no confidence vs. tons of confidence, I want to describe how your thought patterns, identity, and mindset change over time as one gains confidence. In […]

Nov 262012
What it actually means to "be yourself"

One of the most frustrating pieces of advice to hear from others when you are a struggling Forever Alone is “Be yourself”. We’ve all heard it, and we’ve all cringed when we’ve heard it. Our reaction goes something like this, “Well I’ve been myself my whole life and not a single girl has liked me. […]

Nov 222012
You must earn everything. You are entitled to nothing.

Some analog thoughts I have. Not going to post this in /r/faimprovement. It’s 8:18am on Thanksgiving Day. Today, in America, we gather friends and family and give thanks to everything that we have in life. It’s a celebration of life. This is a fact I find most interesting. We are celebrating being alive.. I am most thankful […]

Nov 012012
Stop over-analyzing and become a man of action

Hi again. It’s been a while since my last post. Real life has been exciting. Long hours at work, friends visiting, new hobbies, new books, new apartment studio. Life is amazing and I have no complaints. I’m still dating the girl from this story and it’s going very well. So here’s a long update on the […]

Jul 202012
On Not Giving a Fuck and why it is an attractive quality

One of my favorite subreddits is /r/howtonotgiveafuck. I advise you all to subscribe to that subreddit because it really is awesome. I want to make a post now about “Not Giving a Fuck” and why / how it is an extremely attractive quality in a man. But first, this doesn’t mean you can’t be an […]


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